Stress Management & Therapy in Calgary

Stress

Do you feel stressed ALL THE TIME? Is stress starting to weigh you down and wear you out? Has stress become your new normal?

Stress is an inevitable part of life. From the moment we wake up to the moment we go to bed, our days can be filled with a multitude of stressors. Anything from dealing with minor daily hassles—like traffic, pending deadlines, arguments with loved ones or colleagues, unpaid bills, and petty frustrations— to major life events such as trauma, death, illness, financial setback, unemployment, or divorce— can add up and contribute to feelings of overwhelm, anxiety, tension and worry.

What is Stress?

Stress is the body’s natural response to any real or perceived threat. It is simply put, any physical, mental or emotional strain or demand that occurs when faced with a novel, unpredictable, or threatening situation. When your mind thinks it is under threat, your nervous system releases large quantities of stress hormones that trigger your ‘fight, flight or freeze’ response and prepare you for physical action. Your heart pounds, your blood pressure rises, your muscles tense up, you breathe rapidly, you sweat, and you may feel sick to your stomach. Alternatively, you might feel numb, dissociate and shut down. In addition to your physiological response, you react with feelings and emotions, such as fear, anxiety, anger and sadness. After your body has registered the stress response you usually return to a calm state. It’s common to experience stress, however, chronic stress can lead to adverse physical, mental and psychological outcomes.

 

Healthy Stress vs. Unhealthy Stress

Stress can be appropriate and even beneficial. Mild to moderate, short-lived stress can boost alertness, performance and memory, motivating us to succeed and reach our goals. Dealing with manageable stressors can improve our confidence and creativity, help us develop resilience, and generate a sense of fulfillment, meaning and well-being.

When stress becomes chronic, or intense, frequent and prolonged— and the body’s stress response is always activated, it can lead to a myriad of physical and psychological problems. Chronic stress can contribute to high blood pressure, cardiovascular disease, diabetes, and gastrointestinal problems. It can disrupt our sleep patterns, appetite and libido, and contribute to the development of depression, anxiety, obesity, weakened immune function, headaches, memory impairment and fatigue.

Learn more about how stress affects your health.

What Causes Stress?

Stress is different for everyone and what people perceive as stressful differs from person to person. Stress can come from a variety of sources— work burnout, relationship difficulties, parenting struggles, school, injury, illness, financial difficulties, loss of a loved one, and life changes.

How Therapy For Stress Can Help

There are many different therapy approaches to help with stress. I will work with you to identify and understand the sources of stress in your life and provide you with practical tools and strategies to help you cope effectively with stress in your life. This may include developing strategies that quiet your mind, calm your body, and help you regain a sense of balance, direction and mastery of your life.

I see clients in-person in my Calgary office, or online.